We expect our children to “do the right thing,” but many a times, they are left wondering what that right thing is. “Never tell a lie,” sounds great, but what about when it brushes against “always keep your word,” in the case of a teenager who has promised to keep a secret for a friend. Which “right” wins in that case? These are dilemmas that are not questions of right vs. wrong, but of right vs. right. Each side seems to have a strong moral case to it, at least from child's point of view. That'